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Do You Love Them Or Do You Crave Being Deeply Loved By Someone?

Swagata Deshmukh - Jul 08, 2024

Are you head-over-heels, or just looking for a quick fix? Are you in love with someone, or are you just addicted to the idea of being deeply loved by someone?

Love is like a rollercoaster ride - it can be thrilling, exhilarating, and sometimes downright confusing. One of the biggest challenges when it comes to love is distinguishing between loving someone and simply craving to be deeply loved by someone. It's an important question to ask yourself because confusing the two can lead to a whole lot of heartache.

Pam from The Office crying

So, What’s True Love?

When you love someone, you are genuinely concerned about their well-being and progress. You want nothing but the best for them, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness. You embrace their quirks, flaws, and weirdness, and you're committed to them. It's all about giving, without expecting much in return.

In contrast, wanting to be deeply loved by someone is more about fulfilling your own emotional needs. It involves wanting someone to love you intensely, to fill a void or emptiness inside you. You want someone to shower you with affection, and validation, without giving anything in return. It's all about taking, without any thought for the other person's needs or feelings. And that, my friends, is a recipe for disaster.

If you focus solely on being deeply loved by someone, you may miss out on the joys of giving and receiving love in a healthy relationship. You may also set unrealistic expectations for the other person, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and failure on both sides. So, how can you tell the difference between love and love addiction?

The Rock raising his eyebrow

Let’s Break It Down

If you're in love, you'll know it's real because you're willing to work through the tough times. You’ll be focused on them and them only. But if you're just craving love, you'll be more interested in finding someone who can give you what you need emotionally, even if it means being involved with multiple people. And you'll be looking for an easy out as soon as things get a little rocky.

In the end, it's essential to be honest with yourself about your feelings so ask yourself some questions that throb your heart. Are you in love with someone, or are you just addicted to the idea of being deeply loved by someone? Are you head-over-heels, or just looking for a quick fix? Do you really want someone to love or do you just love holding hands with someone?

Nate & Cassie from Euphoria holding hands

Don't settle for a sugar rush when you could have a chocolate factory of a person all to yourself. It feels so good to fall in love, so, don’t rob yourself of the golden chance to find your partner forever. And remember, love isn't about getting what you want – it's about giving what you can. You can find out more such ways to connect with a couple diary and share a full body massager and lubricant gel

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