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8 Soft BDSM Sex Punishments To Push Your Limits Comfortably

Sibasish Singha - Mar 28, 2024

Wanna spice up your vanilla bedroom routine with some exciting punishments without compromising on comfort? Well, let me introduce you to soft BDSM punishments!

Are you ready to flirt with the thrilling side of pleasure and pain? Do you yearn for a new shade of excitement with a touch of taboo while still being in your comfort zone? Well, buckle up (or should we say, handcuff up?), because we're about to delve into a world of tantalizing torment and sumptuous submission.

Let’s unveil the treasure of erotic escapades for those who prefer their kink with a side of comfort. We'll guide you through the art of gentle domination, where the lines between ecstasy and discipline blur into a delectable dance of desire. Prepare to take notes as we offer playful puns and saucy suggestions revealing the art of pushing boundaries— comfortably, of course!

House Of Cards

Orgasm denial, a ravishing BDSM tango that plays with the edge of ecstasy. The dominant teases the submissive, building the peak of pleasure, only to ruin and deny the grand finale. This sizzling torment creates an intoxicating cocktail of desire and tension. Of course, consent and communication are key, with a safe word ensuring both partners' safety and satisfaction. So, embrace this delightful dance of denial and revel in the ecstatic power exchange, exploring sexuality with a cheeky twist. 

Also, if you are feeling extra vindictive, throw in some high-quality lube for extra pleasure as you dictate denial. Our suggestion would be to go with a natural oil-based lubricant like Slick.

Man giving a thumbs down

Ssshhhpecial 

Forced silence, a hush-hush affair in the BDSM world, finds the dominant partner zipping the submissive's lips for the ultimate power trip. Whether through gagging, muzzling, or stern instruction, this provocative practice amps up submission and vulnerability.

But shhh, listen closely: clear communication is key to keeping both partners safe and satisfied. The silent treatment, while steamy, should be consensual and cautious, with regular check-ins to ensure the submissive's comfort. After all, a little bit of quiet can create quite the roar of excitement—just handle it with care.

Ice Ice Baby

Chilling out takes on a whole new meaning with the icy indulgence of using ice in BDSM play. This frosty foray into sensory exploration is the perfect way to introduce goosebump-inducing pleasure. From numbing and cooling delicate areas to creating a delicious dance of contrasts with heat and pain, ice knows how to make the body sing.

Tease your partner’s erogenous zones- from the chest to the navel and then down south with a slippery, melty caress. But remember, as the temperature drops, safety must rise! No long, cold embraces here—keep it brief and intermittent to avoid icy injuries, but a little sting now and then is always welcome. It is a punishment after all.

MyMuse Pro-tip: Keep a bowl of warm water nearby in case your partner needs warming up ASAP. 

The Dictator

Setting the tempo with rules and restrictions, the dominant holds the power to grant or revoke permission to practice self-pleasure by the submissive. Through this wicked waltz of control, the dominant can reward good behaviour or punish naughty notes, reinforcing their influence over the submissive's solo time. Prepare for an enticing encore, exploring this frisky form of power play.

Man saying yes

Disciplinary Action Powered By Soft BDSM

Restrictive discipline is a titillating twist on soft BDSM. If you are in for a harder hit, you should try this. It transforms the dominant into the ultimate gatekeeper of guilty pleasures. With a flick of their wrist, they can snatch away a submissive's TV binges, phone privileges, or even their climactic crescendos. This deliciously devious approach serves to spice things up in the power dynamic, making the submissive dance to the dominant's tune. With rules and consequences fine-tuned, restrictive discipline orchestrates a harmonious BDSM symphony of control and structure, punctuated by sultry suspense.

May The Force Be With You

Forced orgasms are a deliciously devilish punishment in the soft BDSM arena. It seems the dominant partner coaxing a crescendo of climaxes from the submissive. This whirlwind of ecstasy can tip the scales from pleasure to overwhelming exhaustion. This is more of a case with men than women as they often need extra time to recoup between encores.

As a soft BDSM punishment, forced orgasms test the bounds of sensual satisfaction. But remember, consent is the backbone of this erotic rollercoaster, and a keen awareness of gender differences keeps the ride smooth and exhilarating.

Man asking you to do it again

The Devil Bares Prada

A daring dalliance in soft BDSM punishment, the submissive struts through public spaces scantily clad, sporting little more than a long coat or pants. This risqué runway showcases the dominant's control while heightening the submissive's vulnerability. However, caution must be the chic accessory to this erotic ensemble. Consent is the ultimate style statement, while safety and legality ensure the submissive's strut stays on the right side of the social catwalk. So, dare to bare, but tread carefully and fashionably.

Last But Not The Leasht

A soft BDSM stroll through the territory of collars and leads turns the submissive into the dominant's loyal companion. With a snug collar and carefully handled lead, the submissive partner's breath and movements remain under control, but their safety upon misdemeanour stays on a short leash and at the mercy of the punisher.

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