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What Women Want in Bed? The Ultimate Guide

Team MyMuse - Sep 23, 2024

When it comes to understanding women in bed, the truth isn’t as confusing as you might think. So, What Do Women Want in Bed?

Let’s face it—men sometimes think what women want in bed is a complicated mystery. And because they aren’t always keen on asking directly, they end up searching blogs like this for answers. Well, as a girl’s girl, I’m here to make sure those men know what their ladies want—and, more importantly, that those ladies get what they deserve, apart from having the best body massagers in India.

When it comes to understanding women in bed, the truth isn’t as confusing as you might think. Sure, every woman is unique, but there are some common themes.

So, What Do Women Want in Bed?

1. Being Prioritized (It’s Not Just About You!)

No one wants to feel like an afterthought, especially in the bedroom. Just because things might be simpler for you doesn’t mean your needs come first. Women want to feel cherished, seen, and most importantly, prioritized. Try to indulge in her fantasies. It’s not about rushing to the finish line—take your time to focus on what she enjoys. When she feels important, you’re already well on your way to success.

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2. South Action (Know Where She Wants It)

Here’s the thing: just because you have your favorite spots doesn’t mean she thinks the same. Pay attention to her cues and focus on what she enjoys. For many women, certain areas deserve a little extra attention. Take your time, listen to her reactions, and you’ll be a star. 

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3. Dirty Talk (But Keep It Classy)

If I had a penny for every time my friends mentioned how guys either don’t say enough or go completely silent when things heat up, I’d be set for life. Verbal communication can add to the experience—when done right. Some women love a bit of playful talk, but it’s about being subtle and respectful. Compliments, teasing, and even a little moaning can go a long way. Just be sure to gauge what makes her comfortable. Yeah, what women want in bed is as simple as that. 

4. Don’t Go for Hours (Quality Over Quantity)

Contrary to popular belief, it’s not about how long it lasts. A well-spent, focused few moments can be way more satisfying than a marathon session. Quality wins over quantity any day. Pay attention, make it count, and don’t stress about going on forever. It might sexually frustrate her. Plus, there’s always time for a second round!

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5. More Warm-Up (Always a Yes)

Five minutes of kissing? Yeah, that’s not gonna cut it. The build-up is key! Kissing, touching, and teasing aren’t just warm-ups—they’re part of the whole experience. Take your time getting to know what makes her tick. The more connected she feels, the better the rest will be. You can also use bedroom essentials like a massage oil, scented candles or a playful card game for this. 

6. Aftercare (Don’t Skip It)

Rolling over or jumping out of bed the second things are done? Not a great move. Aftercare matters. Whether it’s cuddling, chatting, or just sharing a laugh, this part shows that you care about her as a person, not just the moment. So, what do women want in bed?A space where she feels appreciated and emotionally connected.

And a tip for everyone: Aftercare is a good idea no matter the nature of the relationship—whether it’s something long-term, casual, or even a one-time thing. It’s just common courtesy.

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