The relationship between erotica for women and their smutty needs
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The relationship between erotica for women and their smutty needs

Team MyMuse - Jul 23, 2024

Why are WE so obsessed with erotica for women?! The real question is, why aren’t you?

Dearest gentle readers, 

You too, must’ve found yourself caught up in the wonderful world of Bridgerton or lost in the seemingly innocent pages of yet another steamy novel you cannot seem to put down. Welcome to the land of erotica, you will never be able to leave. So why do we find ourselves glued to the dimly lit screens, hiding the covers of shirtless men, and giggling as we read the many ways the author has discovered we can describe the ‘package’? Here’s what we think.

Part memoir, part juicy tell-all, part erotic thriller

‘Under the sheets’ > Spreadsheets 

Who wouldn’t want to leave behind a day filled with spreadsheets and screaming kids for an evening in a world where the biggest dilemma is whether the heroine will choose the dark, brooding billionaire or the charming, adventurous bad boy? We know our pick. To add to the fun, try our Breeze massager for women. 

The Hopelessness of Modern Romance

Let’s face it: modern romance can be a bit of a dumpster fire. Swipe left, swipe right, ghosting, breadcrumbing—it's enough to make anyone’s head spin. But we prefer some good old-fashioned swooning and a doze of the best body massagers in India instead. Erotica for women, offers a refreshing alternative: the promise of a healthy romance, even if it's just for a few hundred pages, or if you’re deranged like me, 1500 pages. The characters may have their ups and downs, but in the end, there's always a satisfying conclusion (pun intended). But good erotica isn’t just about the big O; it’s about the buildup, the tension, the will-they-or-won’t-they thrill. These stories remind readers that love can be thrilling, passionate, and most importantly, fulfilling.

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Pleasure First 

Most romance ignores that pleasure is a healthy, deeply important part of love and that it cannot be ignored. Erotica has managed to create a space where women’s desires and fantasies are not just acknowledged but celebrated, and it’s appealing to engage with this world. Pleasure isn’t something to be ashamed of, we encourage you to try out the best lubricant gels and oils to amp up your solo play. Erotica has also managed to build a safe space for different kinds of people who don’t often find themselves represented in the world of pleasure. 

All We’re Seeing is Erotica 

And have you noticed? There's more erotica for women being published now than ever before. I enter a bookstore and I’m bombarded with 1,20,000 versions of a summer romance. The niche is no longer niche but has become commonplace and has also been deeply beneficial to the publishing industry. One could almost say it’s an erotic explosion. Why? Because publishers have finally caught on to the fact that women want these stories. Much like Taylor Swift single-handedly boosting the American economy, we’re saving the world by reading erotica. A little bit of a stretch? Either way, women have found a rather substantial place for themselves in the world of publishing. 

3 old women reading on a bench

Next time you see someone engrossed in a book with a suspiciously muscular man on the cover, don’t judge. She’s not just reading smut—she’s exploring, escaping, and enjoying every scandalous minute of it. And who can blame her? In a world full of chaos, sometimes a little literary love affair is exactly what the doctor ordered.

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