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How To Nurture Love In An Arranged Marriage In 2024

Mymuse Team - May 31, 2024

Arranged marriages might start with a little nudge from your families, but the story that unfolds is entirely yours to create. So, let’s learn how to nurture love in an arranged marriage in 2024

Ah, 2024—a time when we can order groceries with a voice command, but somehow finding love feels more complex than quantum physics. Between swiping right, ghosting, and deciphering emojis, modern romance is a tangled web. Add an arranged marriage to the mix, and it might feel like your parents handed you a Rubik's Cube with a smug "Good luck!" So, is it possible to love after marriage? With the right mindset and a few insider tips, you’ll soon be cracking the code of nurturing love in an arranged marriage.

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3 Rules To Nurture Love In Your Arranged Marriage

No Screens, Only Love

In the age of screens, nothing screams romance and love after marriage like undivided attention. When you’re out on a date night with your arranged partner, try putting those smartphones away. Yes, that means no Instagramming your food or texting your bestie for live updates. Being present allows you to truly connect, share genuine laughs, and maybe even notice the cute way they twirl their fork when eating pasta. Plus, it shows that you really value each other’s company and want love in your arranged marriage.

Kiss, Cuddle, Repeat

Affection isn’t just about grand gestures; it’s the little things that build intimacy. Whether it's a gentle kiss on the forehead, a warm hug after a long day, or just holding hands while watching a movie, physical closeness can bridge the gap between two hearts. Physical touch releases oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone." This helps build trust and deepen your emotional connection. Once you’re comfortable enough, you’ll be able to use the Breeze mini massager for women and Glide, the best natural lubricant. So, go ahead and get comfy to let love in your arranged marriage!

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Get Over It

Sometimes, simply acknowledging the awkwardness can make it vanish and make love bloom in an arranged marriage. Give each other the best wedding gifts to show that you care. Physical closeness, like holding hands, hugging, or cuddling, can break the ice and make you both feel more connected. If your friends are teasing you, plan a strategy together. Laugh it off, create inside jokes, or come up with witty comebacks. Showing a united front can strengthen your bond. 

Make sure you get an anniversary gift for your husband or a birthday gift for your wife even during your first year of marriage. By tackling one issue at a time and figuring out what works best for both of you, you'll gradually fall in love after marriage.

In the end, love is all about the journey, not just the destination. Arranged marriages might start with a little nudge from your families, but the story that unfolds is entirely yours to create. Who knows, you might just find that the best love stories are the ones that aren’t scripted.

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