How To Bring Back Passion In Your Relationship Without Black Magic

Swagata Deshmukh - Jun 19, 2024

No need to dabble in the dark arts to bring back that passion in your relationship. Just follow these super practical tips to conquer your love life!

Does it look like the passion in your relationship has decided to go on a solo vacation, leaving you two feeling like the unwanted third wheel? Maybe you're feeling more like roommates than lovebirds. The excitement meter is flatlining, and you miss those heart-pounding moments and satisfaction. But recognizing these signs is like finding the X on the treasure map—it's the first step to reigniting the romance!

But you're not alone in this love lull! It happens to the best of us. Now, we won't be resorting to any hocus-pocus or black magic to make everything right again. So, let's dive into some practical ways to get that passion in your relationship back!

The GPS of Love

Can you go on a road trip, on a new route, without GPS? Obviously not, right?! Well, your relationship needs some navigation too and that can only happen if you guys communicate well! Talk openly and honestly about what's bothering you, and encourage your partner to do the same. Sharing your deepest desires, dreams, and even your irrational fears can do wonders in reconnecting emotionally and bringing back that passion in your relationship.

Man talking about being open to all possibilities

Love Needs Playdates Too

Remember the good old days when you were counting down the seconds until your next date? Bring back that passion in your relationship by scheduling regular date nights! Rediscover the joy of spending quality time together or writing each other love letters. Get creative with your activities and dive into things you both enjoy. And while you're at it, don't forget to share your innermost thoughts and feelings. You can also try our Couples playbook journal for a more guided love session!

It Starts With You

Self-love is like a superpower—it makes you irresistible! So, don't forget to take care of your physical and mental well-being. Try indulging in your favourite activities like painting, skincare, etc., or get bedroom essentials to set the mood. When you feel good about yourself, you'll naturally bring more positivity & passion to your relationship.

Burn Your Bedroom

We don’t literally mean it so please put those matches back. We want you to explore new fantasies together like a seductive massage maybe; it's like a thrilling adventure without leaving your bed. You can try out different locations (I mean, who said romance only happens indoors?), or add a little playful spark with some props. You can get some of the best hand-held personal massagers from MyMuse.

When All Else Fails, Seek Help from the Wizard

Sometimes, even the most magical of relationships need a little help from professional sorcerers. I mean, counselors or therapists! Seeking couples' therapy can provide valuable insights and tools to navigate through the not-so-sparkly patches and get the passion in your relationship back. No shame in that game, folks!