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Arranged Marriage Sex Tips To Go From Awkward To Ah-Mazing

Want to replace arranged marriage awkwardness with sexual tension? Here are some smooth tips to help you get to the finish line with their hand in yours!

It’s time for some reality check. Unlike Bollywood movies tell you, wedding nights or sex after an arranged marriage is not just about undressing the bride or the groom being overexcited. In real life, arranged marriage couples often have some level of awkwardness between them. Well, you're sharing a bed with a stranger your parents found on some matchmaking platform – suhag raat is a big deal!

But if you’ve managed to find happiness & O’s easy with your partner, I wish you more of them. But if you're struggling to get comfortable with your boo, here are some smooth tips to help you get to the finish line with their hand in yours.

Talk It, Then Walk It

First things first, communicate openly. We all know that communication is the key to any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. Be honest and open with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and any concerns you may have. And don't forget to give positive reinforcement when your partner does something that you like - a little encouragement can go a long way.

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Foreplay For Play

Sex is not all “go penetrating or go home”. Take the time to get to know each other's bodies and build trust and comfort in the relationship. Explore each other's erogenous zones and experiment with different techniques of foreplay. It's often an easy way to get intimate without feeling pressured to do a lot, especially in an arranged marriage where you may not have as much history or familiarity with your partner's body.

Intentional Choices

Don't be afraid to try different types of touch - kissing, caressing, and oral sex can all activate different pleasure pathways in the brain, leading to a more varied and satisfying sexual experience. And you can also try to set some specific goals with your partner. Aim to have sex once a week, try out a new position each month, or even experiment with foot play, car sex, and shower sex - the possibilities are endless!

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Creativity Is Sexy

Now, let's get creative. Don't be afraid to try new things in the bedroom - roleplaying, watching erotica together, and exploring different fantasies can all add some excitement and variety to your sex life. Just remember to always prioritize communication and consent. Sex toys paired with a smooth lubricant gel like Glide can be a fun and exciting way to explore new sensations and add variety to your sex life. Consider investing in a toy like a handheld massager or a multipurpose tool like massage candles to enhance your intimacy.

You Are Unique

And last but not least, don't compare yourself to others. We live in a culture that puts a lot of emphasis on sexual performance, but it's important to remember that every relationship is unique. Focus on your own needs and desires, and don't worry about what others may be doing.

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So, there you have it, folks - some quick little tips to help you navigate the waters of an arranged marriage. Good luck, and happy exploring!

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Swagata Deshmukh

Swagata is an introverted author who finds happiness in writing about taboo topics and making readers blush. She is known for cracking inappropriate jokes, which she claims is part of her career, and chasing cats wherever she goes.

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