Team MyMuse - Oct 30, 2024

Want to spot the signs she loves you? Here are 6 clear hints she's falling for you, from subtle hints to tell-tale signs of love!

You know, that “Is she into me or just being polite?” phase. Let me tell you, you’re not alone! I once dated someone who I thought was ghosting me (spoiler alert: they weren’t), but it wasn’t until much later that I realized there were clear signs all along that she was totally head over heels. And knowing about the Three Love Theory would have helped me a lot more.

So, if you’re in that space wondering whether she’s truly smitten or just having a good time let’s cut through the confusion. How to know if she is in love with you? Here are six unusual, but telling, signs that she’s absolutely into you. No clichés here, just real insights.

6 Signs She Loves You

1. She Argues With You (And No, It’s Not a Bad Thing)

Yes, this is one of the unexpected signs she loves you. You might think arguments spell trouble, but hold up. If she’s willing to debate or challenge you about what to do for date night, that’s actually a good sign. It shows she’s comfortable enough to express her opinions and fight for the relationship rather than brushing issues under the rug. Real love means not always agreeing, but wanting to find common ground because you both care about making it work.

2. She’s Got Quirky Inside Jokes With You

When a woman starts sharing goofy, almost nonsensical inside jokes that only the two of you understand, it’s a major clue. It’s her way of showing she’s totally comfortable being herself around you, and that level of authenticity only comes when she’s emotionally invested. One of my exes used to nickname every single thing I owned laptop, car, you name it and I didn’t even realize it was a sign of how connected we were until much later.

3. She Gives You Space

This might sound counterintuitive, but when she genuinely respects your personal space, it’s a sign of deep love. Love doesn’t always mean being glued at the hip. If she’s cool with you hanging with your mates or indulging in your hobbies without guilt-tripping you, it means she’s secure in the relationship and respects your individuality. Let’s be real, it’s refreshing when someone gives you room to breathe!

4. She’s Your Biggest Cheerleader

This one’s all about support. She celebrates your wins and encourages you even when you’re doubting yourself or having insecurities in your relationship. Maybe she’s the one pushing you to apply for that promotion, or sending motivational texts before a big presentation. If her faith in you never wavers, it’s because your success feels like hers, and that’s a massive indicator of love.

A woman showing a sign that reads ‘Get it, gurl’

5. She Remembers the Smallest Details

Whether it’s your favorite childhood snack or that embarrassing story from a family reunion, if she’s paying attention to those little quirks or the kind of lubricant gel you like, it’s a dead giveaway. I remember dating someone who always remembered my weird obsession with gummy bears, even bringing them over after a tough day. These small gestures show that you matter to her and are the crystal-clear signs she is in love with you.

6. She Talks About the Future Casually (But Intentionally)

It’s one thing for someone to drop a “we should do this someday” in passing, but when she starts to include you in future plans without hesitation whether it’s holiday trips, buying a Breeze mini massager, or meeting her family she’s already visualizing you by her side long-term. She’s not just imagining a future, she’s actively making you a part of it.

So, depending on these signs, she loves you! If you’re seeing even a couple of these signs, chances are, she’s not just into you she’s seriously into you. And if you’ve ever been ghosted or felt unsure like I did, remember that sometimes the signs are there all along. You’ve just got to look for the little things.