Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples: 120 Prompts, Mild to Wild

Short answer: For never have I ever as a couple, take turns reading a line that starts with "Never have I ever...". If you have done it, you put a finger down, take a sip of whatever you are drinking, or pay a kiss. Then you tell the story. Below are 120 prompts that go from funny to spicy to deep, plus rules that make it work with just two of you.

Never have I ever is usually a party game. With two people it changes. It is less about who has done the wildest thing and more about the little confessions you would never think to bring up on a normal evening. That is what makes it good for couples, whether you have been together six months or sixteen years.

How to play never have I ever as a couple

• Pick a score. Five fingers each, first one to put all five down loses. Or skip the score and just play.
• Pick a forfeit. A sip of wine, juice or chai. A kiss. An item of clothing, once you reach the spicy round.
• Story rule. If you put a finger down, the other person can ask one follow-up question.
• Pass rule. Each of you gets three passes, no explanation needed.
• Agree on the heat level first. Start with the funny round and move up only if you both want to.

The prompts below are written to your partner ("you", "us"), so they work best as two.

Funny never have I ever questions (1 to 25)

1. Never have I ever pretended to like a gift you gave me.
2. Never have I ever stalked your profile before our first date.
3. Never have I ever practised what to say to you in the mirror.
4. Never have I ever blamed a smell on someone else.
5. Never have I ever laughed at a joke of yours I did not understand.
6. Never have I ever eaten your leftovers and said nothing.
7. Never have I ever fallen asleep during a movie you picked.
8. Never have I ever pretended to be busy when you called.
9. Never have I ever Googled something you said so I could reply smartly.
10. Never have I ever worn your T-shirt and acted like it was mine.
11. Never have I ever cried at an advertisement.
12. Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person.
13. Never have I ever sung loudly in the shower, thinking nobody could hear.
14. Never have I ever pretended to know a song at a wedding sangeet.
15. Never have I ever eaten an entire box of mithai alone.
16. Never have I ever faked being asleep to avoid doing the dishes.
17. Never have I ever lied about my height, weight or age online.
18. Never have I ever been caught talking to myself.
19. Never have I ever named a plant and talked to it.
20. Never have I ever walked into a glass door.
21. Never have I ever forgotten your birthday until the morning of.
22. Never have I ever kept a screenshot of something you said, just in case.
23. Never have I ever kept quiet about a purchase.
24. Never have I ever waved back at someone who was waving at the person behind me.
25. Never have I ever told my mother something about us before I told you.

Cute and romantic (26 to 45)

26. Never have I ever thought about you the moment I woke up.
27. Never have I ever saved a voice note of yours to listen to again.
28. Never have I ever written your name in a notebook.
29. Never have I ever felt nervous before seeing you, even recently.
30. Never have I ever kept a ticket, receipt or wrapper from one of our dates.
31. Never have I ever pictured our wedding, or our anniversary, in detail.
32. Never have I ever smelled your pillow when you were away.
33. Never have I ever wanted to call you just to hear your voice.
34. Never have I ever told a friend you were the one before I told you.
35. Never have I ever rewatched our photos at 2 AM.
36. Never have I ever pretended to be cold so you would hold me.
37. Never have I ever felt jealous of someone who got your attention.
38. Never have I ever made a playlist that was really about you.
39. Never have I ever picked a restaurant only because you would like it.
40. Never have I ever planned a surprise for you that never happened.
41. Never have I ever said I love you in my head before saying it out loud.
42. Never have I ever felt butterflies after a fight ended.
43. Never have I ever smiled at my phone in public because of your message.
44. Never have I ever bragged about you to my colleagues.
45. Never have I ever wanted a whole lazy Sunday with nothing but you.

Flirty never have I ever questions for couples (46 to 65)

46. Never have I ever checked you out when you were not looking.
47. Never have I ever picked an outfit just so you would notice.
48. Never have I ever replayed one of our kisses in my head at work.
49. Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in front of everyone.
50. Never have I ever deleted a flirty message and sent something safe instead.
51. Never have I ever felt attracted to you during an argument.
52. Never have I ever daydreamed about you in a boring meeting.
53. Never have I ever wanted to skip dinner and go straight home with you.
54. Never have I ever found your voice attractive on a phone call.
55. Never have I ever noticed your hands and lost track of the conversation.
56. Never have I ever worn your perfume or cologne on purpose.
57. Never have I ever wanted you to be a little bossier.
58. Never have I ever bitten my lip on purpose to get your attention.
59. Never have I ever pictured us on a getaway with no phones.
60. Never have I ever flirted with you over text while sitting in the same room.
61. Never have I ever pretended I needed help with something just to be close to you.
62. Never have I ever wanted to pull you into a corner at a family function.
63. Never have I ever blushed reading one of your messages.
64. Never have I ever noticed a small thing about your body that drives me crazy.
65. Never have I ever wanted to try a slow dance with you at home.

Spicy never have I ever for couples (66 to 90)

This is where it gets juicy. Check in before you start this round, and remember that a confession is a gift, not ammunition.

66. Never have I ever had a dream about you that I never told you about.
67. Never have I ever thought about you in the shower.
68. Never have I ever wanted to try something new in bed but felt too shy to say it.
69. Never have I ever faked enjoying something to be polite.
70. Never have I ever wanted to be blindfolded.
71. Never have I ever thought about using a massager together.
72. Never have I ever wanted to role-play a scene from a movie.
73. Never have I ever sent or wanted to send a photo that would make you blush.
74. Never have I ever been turned on at a completely wrong moment.
75. Never have I ever wanted to stay in bed all day with you.
76. Never have I ever thought about a place we have never been intimate.
77. Never have I ever wanted you to take charge completely.
78. Never have I ever wanted to take charge completely.
79. Never have I ever kept something you wore because it reminded me of a night.
80. Never have I ever thought about you whispering something filthy in my ear.
81. Never have I ever been distracted by a love bite you left.
82. Never have I ever wanted to try a massage that did not stay a massage.
83. Never have I ever read something steamy and thought of you.
84. Never have I ever wanted to be tied up, gently.
85. Never have I ever thought about our first time and wished I could redo it.
86. Never have I ever wanted to try a new position but did not know how to ask.
87. Never have I ever wanted to finish what we started in a car.
88. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep so you would wake me up a certain way.
89. Never have I ever felt shy about asking for exactly what I want.
90. Never have I ever wanted to play this game with fewer clothes on.

If a few of these made you both grin, you may want to explore them properly. Our guide to 21 games for couples to play at home picks up from here, and if talking out loud is the hard part, start with this beginner's guide to talking in bed.

Deep never have I ever questions (91 to 105)

Slow down for these. Do not score them. Just listen.

91. Never have I ever felt I could not tell you something.
92. Never have I ever worried you would leave.
93. Never have I ever changed something about myself for you.
94. Never have I ever felt lonely while sitting next to you.
95. Never have I ever felt proud of you and not said it.
96. Never have I ever forgiven you without telling you.
97. Never have I ever wished you would ask me how I really am.
98. Never have I ever doubted us, even for a day.
99. Never have I ever felt completely safe with you.
100. Never have I ever thought about what our life looks like in twenty years.
101. Never have I ever been scared of becoming like my parents in a relationship.
102. Never have I ever needed space and not known how to ask.
103. Never have I ever felt grateful for something small you did.
104. Never have I ever held back tears so you would not worry.
105. Never have I ever wanted to say sorry and let my pride win.

Over text or long distance (106 to 115)

Send one line at a time on WhatsApp and reply with a finger emoji if it is true. Works well on a video call too. More ideas in our long distance intimacy tips.

106. Never have I ever sent a message and then stared at the screen waiting for the blue ticks.
107. Never have I ever typed I miss you and deleted it.
108. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a video call with you.
109. Never have I ever screenshotted one of your messages to show a friend.
110. Never have I ever changed your contact name to something cute.
111. Never have I ever reread our first chat.
112. Never have I ever sent a voice note just to say goodnight.
113. Never have I ever waited to reply so I would not look too eager.
114. Never have I ever sent a text I was too shy to say in person.
115. Never have I ever counted the days until I see you.

A Hinglish round (116 to 120)

116. Never have I ever told my mummy "bas ho gaya, coming" while still in bed with you.
117. Never have I ever pretended the network was bad so I could end a call with relatives.
118. Never have I ever checked your phone "by mistake".
119. Never have I ever said "kuch nahi" when it was definitely kuch.
120. Never have I ever planned our honeymoon in my head before we even made it official.

House rules

• Be kind about every answer. Whatever comes up during the game stays in the game.
• Nothing confessed gets used in a fight later.
• Anyone can pause or stop the game, at any point.
• If a prompt touches something painful, talk about it, or skip it. Both are fine.

If you would rather not read from a phone, the Naughty Cards Game (₹325) puts prompts like these on a deck you can shuffle and pull from. Prefer a different format? Try our 100 truth or dare questions for couples or the couple quiz.

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