Musings

Why Pillow Princesses Deserve To Have All the Fun

Team MyMuse - Jul 16, 2024

Being a pillow princess is all about taking pleasure in being pampered and worshipped. You get to lay back (literally) and let your partner take the reins. It’s about knowing exactly what you like and confidently allowing yourself to indulge in it. Far from being passive, it is enjoying the luxury of being the center of attention.

The art of receiving

Receiving pleasure isn't as easy as it sounds. It requires a level of confidence and self-assuredness that says, “Yes, I deserve to feel good!” For many, letting go of the need to constantly reciprocate can be incredibly liberating. It’s about time we celebrate this art form!

Partner’s POV

For many people, giving pleasure is just as enjoyable, if not more so, than receiving it. Seeing your partner completely relaxed and enjoying themselves can be incredibly satisfying and arousing. When both partners embrace their roles, the experience becomes mutually gratifying.

Confidence Boost

Many people find immense joy in pleasuring their partners. Knowing they can make you feel good can boost their self-esteem and deepen their emotional bond with you. It’s not just about physical pleasure; it’s about emotional connection and shared happiness. Being a pillow princess doesn't mean you're selfish; it means you know what you like and you’re not afraid to communicate that. Society often tells us that we need to be constantly giving to be good partners, but this isn’t always the case. Being a pillow princess means you’re in tune with your desires and confident enough to express them.

Make it magical

Just because you’re lying back and enjoying yourself doesn’t mean you can’t contribute to the magic. Create a cozy, inviting atmosphere with soft lighting, fresh sheets, and maybe some sultry music. Your partner will appreciate the effort, and it’ll enhance the experience for both of you.

It’s all about balance

While it’s perfectly fine to enjoy being pampered in bed, it’s also important to find balance. Relationships thrive on mutual satisfaction and understanding. Sometimes, your partner might want to take a turn being the one who just kicks back and relaxes. Being open to switching roles can keep the spark alive and ensure both parties are happy.