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How A Stroker Helped Me Get Over A Bad Breakup

Sibasish Singha - Aug 12, 2024

Just when I thought getting over a breakup was nigh impossible, beat stroker made me feel whole again and with happy endings in every way! 

Falling in love with someone who truly loves you back is difficult. And until such a loving relationship comes into your life, fishing for such a connection is the best bet you could ask for, unless you don’t want anything serious. But beware, heartbreak is a real possibility and it can be a total bummer. So, just be prepared for the possibility of getting your heart shattered into a million little pieces. But hey, at least you'll have a great story to tell at your next therapy session!

 

A few months ago, I was in a difficult place where I had a bad breakup with someone I really cared for. I tried everything from burning our pictures to drowning myself in pints of ice cream but nothing seemed to help. I even thought of being friends with my ex. Then, one day, it dawned on me - self-care products might become my way out. And let me tell you, it was a major lightbulb moment. Now, I know what you're thinking - "Self-care? Isn't that too simple?" But trust me, it's worked wonders for me, here’s how-

Avoiding Rebounds

One of the most important things that become an issue after a breakup is the void of longing that is left behind, be it emotional, physical, or sexual. While filling the emotional void needed me to come to terms with my inner feelings about my now-over relationship, the physical voids screamed at me to get rebounds or “closure” with my ex. 

 

So, I decided to treat myself to a little friend: Beat massager for men. And let me tell you, it was the best decision I ever made. Not only did it take care of my needs, but it also gave me time to reflect on myself and avoid any meaningless rebounds or “closure” calls to my ex. It would have been pitiful and weak. Now I'm like a phoenix rising from the ashes, or at least a baby chick pecking its way out of an egg. Either way, I'm moving on and feeling good.

 

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Gaining Confidence

A major hurdle when you try to get over a breakup is getting your self-confidence back after a breakup, especially when it happens with someone you never expected to. Change is a part of life, and one needs the confidence to accept it head-on. But before that, comes the ability to deal with it, one day at a time. Whenever I felt weak or my body felt that it needed a happy hormone boost, the temporary solace of a stroker made a huge difference.

 

Man feeling confident

Being Happy By Myself

And, for the final frontier to get over a breakup, I needed to realize that could be happy by myself. Of course, exercise, meditation, etc., were all pivotal in taking good care of my mind and my body. But having the stroker satisfy my needs and realizing that I didn’t need to linger for anything to be totally satisfied was really liberating. Plus, the stroker never left long hair all over my apartment, so it’s a win-win!

 

Man saying yes

 

It is always important to place your self-worth and care above everything else when you try to get over a breakup, and a stoker can help you with more self-pleasure. So, if you are looking for a stroker for your woes, regardless of what they might be, go for something like the Beat vibrating massager for men and pair it with a good water-based lubricant. Trust me, your heart (and something else) will thank you.

 

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