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What Is Cuckolding & Why Does My Partner Want To Try It?

Why do people like cuckolding & allowing their partner to get handsy with someone else? The short answer is people like all sorts of things and cuckolding is just one of them. For the longer answer, you’ll have to read this one.

If there’s one thing I love about the weekends, it’s the fact that I can stay in bed and scroll endlessly on Reddit and find the weirdest facts or questions people have. A few weeks back, I came across a post in a relationship subreddit asking for advice on cuckolding. The poster, a girl, had recently discovered that her partner was into the idea of her being with other men and wasn't sure how she felt about it.

I hadn't heard much about cuckolding before, so I started doing some research and learned that people find cuckolding appealing for many reasons - from wanting add spice in relationships to enjoying the power dynamic of it all. And as a self-proclaimed imparter of sex-ed, I would like to share all that I found about the pleasure party scene with y’all. So here we go!

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What Is A Cuckold?

It's the latest and greatest trend in the world of kinky bedroom activities. Simply put, Cuckolding is a quirky little quirk in which a person gets a kick out of watching their significant other get it on with someone else. It's when one partner (usually a man, but let's be real, anyone can learn how to cuckold) gets off on the idea of their significant other getting it on with someone else. The woman in this scenario is often referred to as a 'hotwife', while the person she's having sex with is called a 'bull'. But hey, don't worry ladies - you can get in on the cuckold action too. Just call yourself a 'cuckquean' and you're good to go!

Why Do People Like Cuckolding?

The short answer is- people like all sorts of things and cuckolding is just one of them. But let’s also look at the longer answer, shall we?

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David Ley, a clinical psychologist says, "For most couples who incorporate elements of cuckolding, it looks a bit more like swinging or polyamory, where the primary focus is all on the wife's sexual engagements. While many cuckolding fantasies involve fairly extreme elements of infidelity, sexual behaviours, humiliation, one night stands, and submission, these appear to be fantasy in most couples mostly."

For some couples, it's a way to add some excitement and novelty to their sex life. They might see it as an opportunity to explore their own desires and boundaries, or to try out new things that they might not have considered before. Others see cuckolding as a way to tap into their dominant or submissive sides - the cuckold might get a thrill from 'serving' their dominant partner however she wants, while the hotwife gets to assert her own power and sexuality. Or she could be doing this as an anniversary gift for her husband. Who knows, really? The possibilities are endless!

But let's be clear – cuckold fetish isn't about infidelity and betrayal. For some couples, cuckolding is simply a way to have fun and enjoy each other's company in a new and exciting way. The cuck may use his Beat stroker while the Bull enjoys the cuck’s wife. The cuckold and the bull might even become friends. Or maybe they're just pretending to be friends because they're both secretly in love with the hotwife. Again, the possibilities are endless.

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So, if you've ever entertained the idea of cuckolding (or being cuckolded), know that you're not alone - it's a kink enjoyed by many people. Just make sure to communicate openly with your partner and set clear boundaries. And remember, it's all just for fun!

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Swagata Deshmukh

Swagata is an introverted author who finds happiness in writing about taboo topics and making readers blush. She is known for cracking inappropriate jokes, which she claims is part of her career, and chasing cats wherever she goes.

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