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I never thought I'd be the kind of person to enjoy gagging during sex, but life is full of surprises. Find out what is gagging & why you need to try it!
Disclaimer: The following article is not entirely fictional and was submitted anonymously for our ‘Kinky Confessions’ series.
I never thought I'd be the kind of person to enjoy gagging during sex, but life is full of surprises. I had just gone through a terrible breakup and thought a little rebound action would do me some good. I went to a club with my friends but left it with the cute bartender to his place. He was hot, charming, and knew his way around a cocktail shaker, iykwim!
Things were cruising smoothly until he whipped out something totally wild from the bedside table drawer. He unveiled a gag ball and wanted me to give it a go. Of course, being the daring person I am, I agreed to test it out with a promise that we could stop if it didn't feel right. A few minutes in, I almost started to panic, thinking I was going to die, or worse, throw up, but instead, I let out a moan of pleasure. Turns out, sometimes you have to take risks to find out what you like. Needless to say, that bartender became my new favourite drink!
So, let’s help you see if gagging is your choice of sexual poison!
What Is Gagging?
Gagging is a form of sensual restraint that can add an exciting element of power exchange to a sexual encounter. This practice involves placing an object, such as a ball gag or cloth, in a partner's mouth to limit their ability to speak or communicate.
But Why Does It Feel…Nice?
Below are some of the reasons why gagging is so appealing to a lot of people and a staple in their kinky sex lives.
Get Ready To Feel The Heat
Gagging can intensify sensations during sex, both for the person being gagged and their partner. It can create a sense of restriction, vulnerability, and heightened sensitivity, leading to more intense physical and emotional experiences.
Who's The Boss?
Some people may enjoy feeling submissive or dominant during sex, and gagging can be a way to reinforce these power dynamics. It can be a way for the submissive partner to feel controlled, while the dominant partner may enjoy exerting power. Are you ready to give up your voice or take control of your partner's?
Fetish Or Kink
Consensual gagging can be part of a person's sexual fetish or kink. If you're turned on by the idea of being gagged or doing the gagging, you're not alone. Embrace your kinks and let your imagination run wild. Even the gag reflex can be hot to some.
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
When you can't talk, you have to find other ways to communicate with your partner. Gagging can be a new way to experiment with nonverbal cues and heighten your intimacy. It's like a secret language that only the two of you understand.
Take A Trip Into Sensory Overload
When you're gagged, your sense of touch becomes extra-sensitive. It's like taking away one sense and amplifying the others. Get ready to explore your body in new ways and experience pleasure like never before.
Stay Safe & Sexy
Got your freaky senses tingly? Here are some tips to try gagging safely and ASAP (do it now!)
- Before getting freaky, it's super important to have a chat with your partner about what you're into and what's off-limits. And don't forget to establish a safe word, so you can stop the action if things get too wild.
- If your partner can't use a safe word for some reason, come up with some hand signals instead. You know, like tapping out when things get too intense. Keep a kinky safety kit nearby.
- If you're the one doing the gagging, keep an eye on your partner's body language and breathing. You don't want to accidentally suffocate them! And don't forget to check in with them regularly to make sure they're still cool with what's going on.
- Get creative with your gags! There are all kinds of different types out there, from ball gags to ring gags to bit gags. And if you're using a solid gag, think about getting one with a little breathing hole, so your partner can get bondage gagged and still breathe easy.
- Gagging can be part of a whole sensory experience! Blindfolds, restraints, different textures, full body massager like Pulse and temperatures... the sky's the limit.
- Gagging isn't just for lying down in bed! You can do it standing up, sitting down, or even hanging upside down from the ceiling (okay, maybe not that last one). Experiment with different positions to find what feels best.
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