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How To Try Outercourse If You're Not Ready For Penetration

Sex is enjoyable and there is no denial to that. But penetrative sex ain’t always the order of the day. And that’s where outercourse comes in & so do you!

Wanna reach newer heights without climbing stairs? Keep calm, for outercourse is the ultimate elevator you’ve got to take! Outercourse helps you zero in on the treasure troves of erogenous zones, all while steering clear of full-fledged friskiness. So, beckon your partner for a round of fervent fondling, massages that send shivers down the spine, or other electrifying escapades. When it comes to outercourse, the recipe for success lies in relishing the ride – as long as you're basking in bliss, you've hit the sweet spot! Stay tuned for more enticing intel what is outercourse method and spice it up each time!

Painting Without Colours

Frottage! It's not just a fancy word for rubbing or grinding together, it's an opportunity to explore pleasure without diving into the deep end of penetration. All you’ve got to do is let your instinct play out and experiment with the pressure, angles and more. Now don't let the potential dryness scare you away, there are plenty of ways to keep things moist and exciting. You could get creative and mix things up with some natural lubricant gel and slip and slide to your heart's content. The whole body is your canvas!

Bob Ross talking about finding freedom on a canvas

Get Handsy

Using your hands for outercourse can be quite a handy tool (pun intended). From a simple hand-hold to a sensual massage, your fingertips can do wonders. Incorporating massage techniques such as kneading, rubbing, and tapping can help to release tension and increase blood flow, making for a more pleasurable experience. Certain areas of the body, such as the neck, ears, and nipples, are more sensitive and are more attention during a massage. You can also try gentle stroking to more intense rubbing or tapping under the belt. 

So, make sure you stretch those fingers before you get busy with your hands-on approach to pleasure. Remember, the hands are the window to the soul, or is it the other way around? Either way, use them wisely!

The Outercourse Yin And Yang

Let's talk about a hands-on approach to outercourse pleasure - mutual masturbation! Who says you have to fly solo when it comes to self-love? You know your body best, so why not share that knowledge with your lover? Get cosy with some kissing and cuddling, and then let the self-pleasure party begin! Show each other what really gets you going and don't be afraid to explore new erogenous zones together. Just don't forget to clean up after yourselves, unless you want to leave some evidence of your naughty fun.

A man exclaiming evidence


Quiches On The Body

Let's talk about a lip-smacking good time - kissing! It's a great way to explore each other's bodies without diving straight into penetration.  And let's not forget about the endless possibilities when it comes to kissing different parts of the body - from the neck to the ears, even down to the toes, each kiss can be a new discovery of what really turns you on. So, pucker up and get ready to leave a trail of kiss crumbs on each others’ bodies.

Common Senses

Who knew playing with your senses could be so sens-sational? Well, everyone! If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, consider adding a blindfold to your sensory play. It's a great way to keep your partner on their toes during outercourse as they are constantly curious about what's coming next! 

An old man saying his interest is piqued


From massages to candle play to scented oils and creams, the possibilities are endless. Just make sure you have consent before breaking out the wax! And if you really want to turn up the heat, try temperature play or tickle each other with feathers or floggers.

Toys That Make You Extremely Happy

Get a buzz on - with pleasure props, of course! These babies pack a serious punch and are perfect for over-the-surface stimulation. You can use it by yourself in front of you partner or let them take control and use it on you. If you haven't already, this year might be the perfect time to invest in a great massager. And don't worry, not all self care products are designed for insertion. There are plenty of toys out there like the Palm handheld massager that cater exclusively to the outside bits.

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Sibasish Singha

Sibasish is a creative yet chaotic writer who prefers human behavior as a subject for his articles. If he is not experimenting in the kitchen, he is spiraling into a speeding train of overthinking titled 'what if'.

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