Whether you're a seasoned pro or just dipping your hip into this sultry territory, let us guide you through the ins & outs of the woman on top position.
Ladies gather 'round because we're about to dive into one of the most exhilarating, empowering, and yes, sometimes challenging, positions in the bedroom – the ‘woman-on-top’ position! Whether you're a seasoned pro or just dipping your toe (or should I say hip?) into this sultry territory, this article is here to guide you through the ins and outs of the woman on top position. So, grab your confidence, and let's get ready to conquer the world!
What Is The Woman-On-Top Position?
Before we start, let's make sure we're all on the same page. Being on top, also known as the "Cowgirl" position, puts you in the driver's seat. You straddle your partner, facing them, and get to control the rhythm, depth, and intensity of the action. But hey, this isn't a one-size-fits-all scenario because there are variations for you to explore!
The classic cowgirl is your go-to, with knees on the bed & hands on your partner for support. You're riding high, and it's all about you calling the shots. Next up, reverse cowgirl where you flip the script and turn around! This twist adds a bit of intrigue as your partner enjoys the view while you ride into the sunset. And last but not the least- the rocking horse! Get into a rocking motion rather than an up-and-down bounce. This rhythm adds a teasing edge to your moves and might make things easier.
Why Is It So Hard?
Now, you might be thinking, "If this is so amazing, why is it so challenging?" Well, darlings, the road to pleasure isn't always smooth as if it’s the best lubricant gel or oil. Sometimes, we doubt ourselves. The key is to own your sensuality trust your instincts and just be confident. And let’s be honest- trying the ‘woman-on-top’ position can be quite the workout! It demands core strength and endurance. Additionally, finding the perfect rhythm for both you and your partner can be like choreographing a sensual dance. But remember, practice makes perfect so make sure you put down your learnings and keep practicing! Who knows, you might just figure out how to squirt!
How Do Get On Top And Stay?
Now, let's dive into the fun part – tips and hacks for mastering the art of the ‘woman on top’ position!
Communication Is Key
Start with open and honest communication. Ask your partner what they like and what feels good. And don't forget to voice your desires too.
Take It Slow
Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither are your bedroom skills. Start slow and gradually build up the tempo. It's not a race; it's a journey. Remember to breathe deeply and relax your muscles. Tension can hinder pleasure, so try to relax and be playful with the Playtime Kit for date night.
Don't be afraid to lean forward or backwards for different sensations. And remember, eye contact can be incredibly intimate. You can also spice things up with some accessories like pillows or a full body massager. They can provide extra support and stimulation.
Practice Makes Perfect
As with anything, practice makes perfect. Confidence can come from feeling sexy, so set the mood with dim lighting, soft music, or even a strategically placed mirror to admire your performance. And hey, don't skip those squats and planks at the gym. The more you explore and experiment, the better you'll become. If you want to practice without pressure, try propping up the Groove wand massager for women and doing your thing!
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