Want to spread the joy of self-love to your partner? Keep these things in mind before you buy your boyfriend his first male sex toy.
More often than not, when we think of sex toys, the first products that pop into our minds are either a rabbit or a bullet. While they’re both absolutely amazing, they’re mainly used by V-owners, leaving the P-owners unaware of the options available to them.
Well, if you have a partner with a penis and want to gently nudge them into unlocking an all-new world of pleasure, then keep reading cause we’re about to tell you how to buy your boyfriend his first male sex toy.
Spicy Conversations Before Spicy Moments
Understanding your boyfriend's desires is step #1. Have an open conversation about his fantasies, preferences, and what he's curious to try. Male sex toys can get overwhelming, especially if you keep in mind how they’re seen as a sign of inadequacy or lack of ability to do certain things in the bedroom. This conversation can help you understand his boundaries & fears better so as to better navigate this intimate adventure together.
Do Your Research
Male sex toys come in various shapes, sizes, and functions. From classic options like vibrating massagers for men and strokers to more advanced male sex toys with unique features, there's a wide array to choose from. Research the different types of sex toys for men, read reviews, and consider what aligns with your boyfriend's preferences. Since it's your boyfriend's first venture into the world of sex toys for men in India, it's advisable to start with beginner-friendly options that are easy to use and provide a gentle introduction. One such option is our non vibrating stroker, Jack, which acts as a sleeve that your man can use without the complications of vibrating settings.
Opt For Versatility
Versatile toys offer multiple sensations and experiences that can further allow your boyfriend to explore his likes & dislikes. Choosing a toy with adjustable settings or different attachments can provide a range of pleasures that can spice things up not only for him but for both of you during partnered play. While a variety of settings can be tempting and all the more exciting, a toy with body-safe silicone is ideal as they’re usually super soft, flexible & very easy to maintain. If you are into this, you should give the Beat massager for men a try. It has 10 different speeds and patterns to choose from.
Take Off The Pressure (& Then Your Clothes 👀)
Create a comfortable and intimate setting when you finally gift your boyfriend his first-ever male sex toy. Encourage him to explore his new toy at his own pace. It's all about his pleasure and comfort, so let him take the lead & pair his gift with the best lubricant gel & oils. You can opt for a mutual masturbation session where you use your own massager while he uses his own, or even incorporate it in your usual partnered sessions during foreplay. This can help him get comfortable with the male sex toy while finding comfort in an all-new experience with you.
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